I was once at a restaurant that was so busy that I had to share my glass of water with my friend because I couldn’t get the server’s attention to ask for a refill. Don’t put your customers in this situation.
Keep an eye on water levels so that you can refill when appropriate. When you do this, be as non-intrusive as possible. There’s no need to announce your presence or stop a conversation to refill glasses.
6. Don’t reach!
Avoid reaching across the table to serve guests or refill waters. Not only is it rude and disruptive, but you could also knock something over and stain a customer’s clothes. Always walk to the customer’s side to place a dish down or pick it up.
7. Don’t auction away dishes
When you bring food to the table, don’t say the name of a dish and have customers raise their hands to claim it. Jot down which seat ordered which dish so that you can deliver each item to the correct person. This simple gesture elevates your level of service - and could help increase your tip.
8. Serve from the left
When serving dishes, stand to the left of each diner and place dishes down on the table from the customer’s left side. The theory is that most diners are right-handed, so serving from the left is less disruptive.
If you need to brush up on tableside etiquette, an online server training course can help you learn how to be a good server in no time.
9. Don’t bring the check until customers ask for it
When you bring customers a check before they request it, you run the risk of making them feel rushed. Don’t bring diners the check until they ask for it.
If your shift is ending before a table has paid and you want to warn your customers of your disappearance, tell each of your tables that your shift is over and let them know who will be taking care of them for the rest of their meal.
Make customers feel comfortable taking their time after a meal.
10. Split checks
Splitting the check has become increasingly popular since millennials made a habit out of dining out with friends. Save yourself and your customers time and a headache by asking if a check should be split before you bring it over.
This technique will ultimately result in more tips for you because you’ll be able to turn over more tables by bringing out the check as requested instead of going back and forth to your POS several times to print out the check and process payments.
As a rule of thumb: if the table looks like a date or a family, one person will probably pay the entire check. If the looks like friends enjoying a meal together, they’ll probably want to split the check.
Practice makes perfect, but a cheat sheet can help! Print out or take a screenshot of these serving tips to review before a shift to learn how to be the best server at a restaurant. To gain more in-depth knowledge on how to be a good server, take an online server training course.